Friday, 31 October 2014

Remember one thing while you are angry


When you feel angry, how do you respond? Do you look for someone else to blame? Do you look inside? Do you look to God? Do you look at circumstances? Anger is a very dangerous emotion, and it's one we must respond to correctly or experience its destructive effects upon others and ourselves. Feelings of strong displeasure and antagonism with the desire to do something in response to these feelings. Warns that something on the inside is not right.
Can move us out of our apathy to accomplish and achieve things.
Rejection
Fear of loss, or the loss of something
Feeling threatened
Past hurts
We must learn how to reduce our anger. Because it is not good for us as well as it hurts others. Due to this even a very strong relationship may get broken.

I feel the tears like

 
 
I Could feel the tears, like fire, coming up
Feel the tears brimming and sloshing in me like water in a glass that is unsteady and too full
Generally men’s tears, like the droppings of certain springs, only harden and petrify what they fall on
He [a weeping man] was like a sponge saturated with water, and then squeezed
Like a summer tempest came as tears
My tears like berries fell down
Produce tears freely like a great actor
Slow as the winter snow the tears have drifted to mine eyes
Suspended like shimmering icicles on my cheeks
A teardrop hung out of each blue eye, like a fat woman leaning out of a tenement window.

Why most of the people fall in love?

 
 
 
 
No one likes long-distance relationships -- but that has little to do with why someone's address impacts whether you'll be romantically attracted to them. Instead, it has to do with cultural values: If you're raised in one place, your idea of attractiveness may be completely different than that of someone raised somewhere else.In fact, a study published in the journal Psychological Science found that men who live in cultures where food and money are scarce tend to find heavier women more attractive than thinner ones. These men may see the extra pounds as a status symbol; a buxom figure signals having the means to purchase plenty of food. Given these findings, it's not surprising that super-skinny people are idealized in places where there are plenty of resources to go around.Though a 65-year-old man might find a 20-year-old woman attractive, they're probably not a great match. "A more than 25- or 30-year difference is always difficult to overcome," he says.Opposites may attract, but that doesn't mean they're a match made in heaven. In fact, recent research has helped explained the phenomenon of doppelganger couples. The types of relationships you forge may beinfluenced by your genetic makeup.